To Conform Is To Lie To Yourself

To conform is to lie to yourself,

To suck the joy out of this finite life.

It was never meant to be locked in a cage,

It was never meant to be stuffed in a box

Shrouded behind impenetrable walls

That blot out the sun and what lay beyond.

That is not living, it is merely subsisting.

Yet this is what our fears, our parents, our cultures preach,

Conform or you will be treated as an outcast.

Well then…perhaps an outcast is what I long to be.

 

~~ Dominic R. DiFrancesco ~~

 

Comments

14 responses to “To Conform Is To Lie To Yourself”

  1. ShelbyCourtland Avatar

    Well said Dom, well said! And I couldn’t agree with you more! I absolutely love this one because it speaks to me.

    1. Dom DiFrancesco Avatar

      I’m so glad Shelby. I find it horrible that to be accepted one must conform to societal norms, it makes for a very bland society indeed. :)

  2. Nicodemas Avatar

    Or what we need to be! A great poem!

    1. Dom DiFrancesco Avatar

      Yes indeed. :)

  3. augustmacgregor Avatar
    augustmacgregor

    Well said… going along with the crowd isn’t always a great thing, especially if we yearn to be something else.

    1. Dom DiFrancesco Avatar

      You are absolutely correct, that is how I see it as well. Thanks for the nice comment my friend. :)

  4. Andrew J. Bradley Avatar
    Andrew J. Bradley

    Thank you — well said

    1. Dom DiFrancesco Avatar

      Thank you very much for saying so. :)

  5. writersdream9 Avatar

    That’s what I want if that is the price of being myself, then bring it on.

    1. Dom DiFrancesco Avatar

      Me too. :)

  6. Carrie Cannady Avatar
    Carrie Cannady

    Right there with you, Dom. This is a beautiful truth…something for everyone to see in themselves.

    1. Dom DiFrancesco Avatar

      Thank you so much Carrie, I appreciate the kind comment. :)

  7. eniola folarin Avatar

    I really enjoyed this!

    1. Dom DiFrancesco Avatar

      I’m glad, thank you so much. :)

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