I fear you are right
Never have two sides not been
Like our history
Contrarian by nature
Viewpoints in opposition
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~~ Dominic R. DiFrancesco ~~
I fear you are right
Never have two sides not been
Like our history
Contrarian by nature
Viewpoints in opposition
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~~ Dominic R. DiFrancesco ~~
A new day…another poll.
Do they like us more today than yesterday
This referendum on hate and bigotry is sickening
We are not new,
We have always been here.
Hiding in the shadows for fear of retribution.
Frequently the target of slings and arrows
Thrown by our brothers and sisters.
Sadly, sometimes they hit the mark.
Why such animosity?
We breath the same air you do,
Drink the same water,
Eat the same food.
We are born of the sacred vessel like you
And we die alone as you do.
We love like you do,
We long to be loved like you do.
We are children of God like you.
You know us though you may not know it.
We are your sons and daughters,
We are your friends and acquaintances,
We are the person you pass on the street,
We are the teacher in your schools,
We are the soldier fighting for your freedom,
We are fireman and policeman,
We are the teller at your ban,
We are the checkout clerk at your convenience store,
We are parents,
We want to be parents,
We were born this way,
Though you think it a choice.
We are gay not broken,
We are not something you need to fix.
We are all created equal,
Wasn’t that the promise made to all of us
Not just to you?
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~~ Dominic R. DiFrancesco ~~
* I wrote this piece because I am tired of the endless polls regarding American’s attitudes toward gay marriage. We seem to have this morbid fascination with the LGBT community to the point that many of us are willing to discriminate against them just to keep them from marrying. In my opinion, not only is this absurd, but it is also unconstitutional and should never have been an issue in the first place. I personally have family members who are gay and I have neither treated them nor looked upon them any differently than anyone else because of their sexual orientation. I have never felt threatened by them, nor have they ever been a threat to the children in our family. They are terrific people. Folks, you don’t chose to be gay, you are born that way. Isn’t it time we get over our homophobia and extend the rights to them as citizens that they are guaranteed in the U.S. Constitution and put an end to this nonsense.
Do not take pleasure
In the loss of two young souls.
Families tattered,
The victim forever changed,
Innocence left smoldering,
Trust left in ruins.
Is there no morality?
What happened to right and wrong?
A hollowed culture.
There are no winners this day,
Only losers can remain.
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~~ Dominic R. DiFrancesco
What you think is right
Is right this moment only
Circumstances change
Requiring reflection
And a drastic change of course
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~~ Dominic R. DiFrancesco ~~
Can you feel the beat of my heart
As you once did?
Flesh…
Blood coursing through my veins.
Though strong, not superhuman.
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I bleed the souls of my fathers when cut,
Shed rivers of tears when broken,
Succumb to infirmities with hastening age,
Scar, ugly and jagged in healing,
Die a mortal death when called by the Creator.
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You and I, conjoined in our humanness,
Why do you treat me otherwise?
The lash of your venom has left permanent tears.
Can you not refrain?
These are not badges of honor I wear, but disgrace,
On display to this cynical, forsaken world.
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Treated as a carnival sideshow…no longer!
I am not a marionette bequeathed for amusement,
And you are not my puppet-master.
With sickle these ties shall be no more;
Dignity awaits me just beyond this stage.
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As I reach for the exit door,
Claws dig into my flesh in one final bid,
But I am resolute in my determination;
Pulling free of your hideous grasp,
Free of control, free of your loathing,
Liberated from bondage.
~~ Dominic R. DiFrancesco ~~
With a tender touch
I tried to quiet your tears
You pushed me away
This was of my own doing
Now it is me who suffers
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~~ Dominic R. DiFrancesco ~~
Have you become so ridiculous
That you justify your ill actions and commentary
With the blanket phrase…“I didn’t know.”?
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Has age taught you nothing,
No process of discovery,
No method to discern.
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Did your parents not instruct you well
In the virtue of restraint,
Knowledge of right and wrong,
In common courtesy?
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You speak and act as if ignorant of the consequences;
Lobbing pain, physical and psychological haphazardly,
Without regard for the well-being of your victim.
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Even in light of your blunders,
You deem your flaming rhetoric insignificant,
Offering no apology, no embarrassment, no sorrow.
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Portraying yourself as the fool,
Friends and loved ones distance themselves,
Hoping you’ll see the error of your ways.
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~~ Dominic R. DiFrancesco ~~