Hell hath no fury
Like that of a woman’s scorn
Be very afraid
Why do we live in such fear
Are they not the fairer sex
Who am I fooling
I sleep with one eye open
~~ Dominic R. DiFrancesco ~~
Hell hath no fury
Like that of a woman’s scorn
Be very afraid
Why do we live in such fear
Are they not the fairer sex
Who am I fooling
I sleep with one eye open
~~ Dominic R. DiFrancesco ~~
Fortified by walls
Convention dictates our roles
We are blind robots
Afraid to step out of the norm
For fear of ridicule
So who wrote these rules
Some wizard behind curtains
Calling all the shots
Break the mold–just live and love
Regardless of your gender
~~ Dominic R. DiFrancesco ~~
Does shedding of tears
Show a man’s human weakness
How sad the question
Emotional detachment
Dictated by our culture
~~ Dominic R. DiFrancesco ~~
Domestic abuse
Can never be justified
Old fashioned? I am!
~~Dominic R. DiFrancesco ~~
By D. R. DiFrancesco
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Secrets clutched tightly to our breast
Scared to show vulnerability
Hiding those things which make us cry, make us bleed
From a world we don’t think could understand.
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Are we untrue to ourselves
The lies we hide deep within our hearts
Beat rhythmically to escape the fleshy prison
Only to be pushed back into the darkest recesses of our souls.
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No one is immune
Deceitful is he who denies his susceptibility
Who has breathed that has not hidden his weakness
Protection from our humanity.
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Our society prides strength
Scoffing at compassion and emotion as if a sign of frailty
This is absurd, yet it resonates loudly among us
So we shelter that which makes us mortal.
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Maleness dictates the subjugation of feelings
One cannot be strong and show emotion
So we masquerade them in anger and violence
Unleashing rage through pestilence and war.
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Our progeny suffers
Families torn asunder in fits of acrimony
Childhoods left in tatters by pent up defiance
Fallen to the tragedy of shame.
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Depression festers, virulent and deadly
A secret best left unmentioned in polite circles
An illness of the mind cannot be real
You are a man, you must act like one.
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The imposition of this philosophy is for fools
Harmful and destructive to the mind, body and soul
Anxiety, depression, suicide the unwelcome victor
Do these secrets make you proud.
Tracing careful steps,
I can see you are upset.
I touch your hand,
Gentle and caring but you pull back.
My gaze tries to meet yours,
But you look away.
A tear traces a sorrowful line down your cheek,
Reaching to wipe it away you slap my hand.
Your silence echos louder than words ever could,
In typical fashion I struggle to discover what I have done.
Is it something I said, something I did?
For God’s sake I’m not a mind reader!
This dance of wills goes on and on,
Resigned to the fact that I will lose,
No give or take just a cold shoulder and I’m to blame.
Bizarre and yet comical,
Juvenile in it’s pettiness.
Looking back these squabbles always make us laugh.
Maybe I had too much to drink,
Maybe I told a story that she didn’t want me to tell,
Or maybe I forgot her birthday,
This only happened once,
Fortunately she is forgiving.
It could be attributed to male ignorance I suppose,
Does this dissolve me of blame?
Yes…until the next time.
Sadly there will be a next time,
Confident in my shortcomings,
I will take up residence in the doghouse once again.